How To Cut Cords With Someone release your energetic and emotional attachments

How To Cut Cords With Someone release your energetic and emotional attachments


This question came up after a Vision Board Workshop I help this week….As I taught during the class; Vibration is everything and our Subconscious mind does not know the difference between what is real and what is not…So when you look at a photo of something you desire; you get that feeling……your vibration is lifted making it easier for your manifestations to flow!!!!

But someone asked…What if you are with someone or work with someone or have any kind of “relationship” at all with someone who lowers your vibration?? How do you raise it again so you’re not “messing up your manifestation?”



We can be affected by these cords in a variety of ways, including:


  • Feeling so emotionally connected to an ex to the point where you are unable to attract a new, healthy relationship in your life
  • Experiencing a lack of confidence in your abilities and talents (especially in the workplace)
  • Consistently being defensive when around certain people
  • Repeating patterns in friendships, family relationships, and romantic relationships
  • Clinging on to relationships for fear of abandonment
  • Attracting negative people or events in your life on a continuous basis
  • Holding on to anger, pain, or hurt from the past
  • Not speaking your truth or defending your position to another out of fear
  • Feeling drained emotionally or physically after interacting with a person, on a regular basis



What are cords and why cut them?

A cord is a negative energetic structure that ties you and another person together.

When you form a relationship with a person, you make two types of connection.  The first type of connection is the spiritual, positive bond that contains energies like unconditional love, good times and lessons learned together, fondness, affection – stuff like that.  This is a positive cord that we never sever because it contains all that is good about the relationship.

The second type of connection is a negative cord – this energetic structure is very different from the positive type because it contains all the negative energies that have ever been a feature of your relationship.  For example, let’s say you have a cord to an unfaithful ex-boyfriend.  Encoded within this cord are the feelings you had when you found out he was cheating on you.  This could be feelings of paranoia, energies of inadequacy; feelings of rage.  Also encoded within the cord could be the pattern of wanting to please your boyfriend, so that he wouldn’t ever leave you.

When you split up, you may never see each other again, but the negative structure (the energy cord) between you remains.  And this cord that connects you two contains those unhelpful patterns and dynamics: rage, inadequacy, paranoia; keeping quiet and pleasing others at your own expense.

Even though you feel like you should have moved on from the relationship, those energies circulate between you both and still affect you.  For example, you still think of your ex-partner and you still feel resentful and angry. Perhaps when you get into a different relationship, you feel the same old paranoia.  And things that happen remind you of the old relationship – even though it bears no resemblance, in reality.  This happens because those negative energies from the cord are flowing into your aura 24/7 and affecting your ability to move on; or feel, think and act differently.

This relationship is just one (dramatic) example. You can form cords with literally anyone you have (or have had) a relationship with, and each one is draining in its own way.

What is cord-cutting?

Cord-cutting is a spiritual healing process that energetically severs that negative attachment between you and another person so that the shadow of that past relationship does not hang over you or affect your behavior in the present.  This means that the rage, paranoia and inadequacy, particular to that aforementioned relationship can be eliminated.  And obviously, other relationships can be improved too because of it.  It does not mean that you lose contact with the person or that it weakens the positive connection.  Cord-cutting will never mean the person disappears from your life unless you consciously make that happen by severing contact.  If anything, that pure, positive connection is improved because it is no longer overshadowed by negative energies.

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